So, here you are at the dawn of a New Year (I am till in
poetic mode after my Shakespeare impersonation). You have decided it’s time to do something
about those ……… (fill in the blanks such as extra 20 lbs., cigarettes, sodas)
and you are determined to change. You were a little reluctant because those
goals seem to repeat themselves year after year. You start off great, and then
you fall off.
Setting goals is great but there is a way to increase the
odds of you actually achieving them, and here are some tips:
1. Write
them down and divide them into a long-term (eg. I want to lose 20 lbs. in 6
months) and short-term goals (eg. I want to lose 5 lbs in the first month by
walking every day for a total of 20 minutes and decreasing my caloric intake by
replacing my afternoon super-size double chocolate thingamajig with a small
single chocolate thingamajig).
2. Share
your goals with others, and if I were you, don’t share them with your
significant other as this can cause problems beyond the ones you have already
;-). A personal trainer or wellness coach would be an excellent choice.
3. Tape
the goals where you can see them every day. You can even write a subset of them
on your daily to-do list if you do such a thing to keep them present in your
awareness.
4. Identify
potential barriers and think through strategies how to offset them. For
example, where will you walk when it rains so that you cannot go to a park? Is
there a mall? Do you have access to a treadmill? Are you getting bored? Have
you tried listening to music or a recorded book (my personal favorite)? Do you
have a party coming up where thingamajigs will abound?
5. Track
your progress. After a week or two, review what went right and what was
difficult. Adjust your short-term plan as necessary. Rather walking every day
for 20 minutes, maybe it’s better for you to walk only 5 times per week for 30
minutes each.
Studies have shown that good goal setting can make or
break the deal whether you will reach your goal or not. And you do not have to
wait for the New Year’s Day to make a resolution. Changing the way you have done
things for a long time requires commitment and vigilance. The old habits have
not served you well; they have led you to where you are right now.
So try to be SMART as you set your goals.
S pecfic
M easurable
A ttainable
R ealistic
T imely
Happy New Year!